Trade Shows: Speed Dating For Businesses


While everyone around me is enjoying the relative calm after the holidays, I am frantically preparing to attend the larger of the semi-annual Craft & Hobby Association trade shows in my role as the editor of the trade journal Scrapbook Update.

For a long time I thought of trade shows as specialized shopping malls, with dealers in booths trying to sell their wares to a sea of customers. But recent experiences have taught me that trade shows aren’t just shopping malls.They are the business equivalent of speed dating.

Technology has changed what most businesses need to get out of a trade show. Thanks to the ability of the web to spread information, a trade show isn’t a customer’s only way to learn about products that they need. Vendors can educate customers via the web, and make sales contacts via email.

That almost sounds like there isn’t a need for trade shows any more. But on a day-to-day level, for many of the things that we do conducting business, we don’t do business with companies. We do business with people. That is where the real value still is in trade shows. “Networking” is a buzzword we hear all the time, but at trade shows it really has become the primary value. It just isn’t worth it to go to most shows anymore only to do a “look-see”. You only get true value if you go with the intent of interacting, meeting people and furthering relationships.

That is why  it’s a good way to think about trade shows as speed dating. In speed dating, you rotate around a room and spend a few minutes each with different people before deciding if you connected with any of them and want a more extended interaction. At a trade show, you run around a trade show floor chatting for a few minutes at a time with a variety of people, trading business cards and then extending an invitation to follow-up with someone you think you might be able to establish a relationship with. Both are about spending a few minutes to get a first impression and decide whether there might be anything in a future relationship between you.

So how do you succeed at trade show speed dating?

  • Make a good first impression. Pay attention to the details, just like you would if you were trying to impress someone to get a date. What you wear, how you carry yourself, and what you say all contribute to that first impression. Make sure you correctly gauge the vibe of the event. Over-dressing can be just as bad as under-dressing.
  • Think outside the box. Don’t dismiss someone as a business connection because it seems like what they do isn’t useful to you. Talk to everyone. If you meet someone you find yourself feeling in step with professionally, don’t walk away from that. Maybe one or both of you will change positions at a future point. Or maybe you can work together in some ground-breaking new way.
  • Have good radar. This takes practice. It really is an art. But learning how to spot the people who are fake, or putting on a show, will save you a lot of trouble down the line. And it will save you networking time because you can move on to the next prospect faster, and maybe find that next fabulous business connection all the sooner.

What is your best trade show networking tip?


Jeffrey Blackwell

It is true that most leads are not followed up after a show. There’s usually a disconnect between sales and marketing that’s to blame. Marketing hands over a pile of leads to sales and maybe a packet of marketing materials goes out. Having a real plan is essential to follow up after the show.

Speed dating is a terrific analogy, but business is funny. Sometimes there are possibilities where there is no apparent personal connection. The right follow up technique ensures that even those people you didn’t talk to for very long have the opportunity to connect with you after show.

We posted more on the topic here:


I think the other thing people need to remember is that they need to follow-up with the leads they meet at the trade show. Statistics show that 79% of trade show leads are not followed-up with and climbing. Not only follow-up, but follow-up with the right information. It is vital that the company has a strategy in place before the show begins on how they plan to follow-up with the leads after the show. This will help in the conversion rate and increase ROI.

Michael Thimmesch

Hello Nancy,

Congrats, that’s a very an apt analogy for trade shows with the concept of speed dating for business. You are right that the web has made getting product knowledge easier, so the relationship building and “look you in the eye” aspect of trade shows has increased in importance.

Most exhibitors follow the “speed dating” analogy to the letter, meeting new people at the show, spending about 5 to 10 minutes with each prospect, swiping their badge, and moving on.

To take your analogy further, a few saavy exhibitors are going past speed dating to arranged marriages. They are setting up appointments in advance with their best prospects, who they then have longer meetings with, using the show as a focal point to bring together top company execs and technical experts to help close a deal.

Thanks for the post, and I hope you enjoy the Craft & Hobby Association show.

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