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		<title>By: So You Want To Be My Friend? &#124; Creative Assistants</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76797</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[So You Want To Be My Friend? &#124; Creative Assistants]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:17:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;p&gt;[...] is done randomly, how much value are those very random “friends” for your business goals?&#8221;Web Worker Daily, Oct [...]&lt;/p&gt;]]></description>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 06:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Im having a lot of trouble with your blog loading lately. Intermittant, and goes to a page could not be found every so often. Hope there isnt any problems.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im having a lot of trouble with your blog loading lately. Intermittant, and goes to a page could not be found every so often. Hope there isnt any problems.</p>
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		<title>By: Find the Right People to Follow on Twitter &#124; SpecialityMoney.com</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76795</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Find the Right People to Follow on Twitter &#124; SpecialityMoney.com]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 01:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] overwhelmed, it&#8217;s important that you follow those that are useful for your field or business, not every single soul on Twitter. In this post I&#8217;ll look at some tools that make the process of finding the right people to [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] overwhelmed, it&#8217;s important that you follow those that are useful for your field or business, not every single soul on Twitter. In this post I&#8217;ll look at some tools that make the process of finding the right people to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Find the Right People to Follow on Twitter</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76794</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Find the Right People to Follow on Twitter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] overwhelmed, it&#8217;s important that you follow those that are useful for your field or business, not every single soul on Twitter. In this post I&#8217;ll look at some tools that make the process of finding the right people to [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] overwhelmed, it&#8217;s important that you follow those that are useful for your field or business, not every single soul on Twitter. In this post I&#8217;ll look at some tools that make the process of finding the right people to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: link building service</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[link building service]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very well said! As someone who’s dying to get more Twitter followers]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well said! As someone who’s dying to get more Twitter followers</p>
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		<title>By: LaLa417</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LaLa417]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 03:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m quite flinty when it comes to friending people on Facebook.  My rule is pretty basic. I&#039;ve had to at the least met the person once and actually liked them.  I do this because what I really like about Facebook is that instead of  of the typical wacky internet personae you find on other sites, it&#039;s the real people I know using their real names and posting real pictures of themselves. And because most of my friends are roughly all in mid to late their thirties, it&#039;s more pics with their children and less with beer-bongs... I also have a Live Journal account and with that, my rule is almost the opposite.  I tend to write about stuff I&#039;d rather not have my business customers or even friends know about.  I&#039;m far too private of a person to generally share such explicit details. So the friends I have on LJ are all in imaginary realm that is the online world.  I don&#039;t even bother with MySpace anymore.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m quite flinty when it comes to friending people on Facebook.  My rule is pretty basic. I&#8217;ve had to at the least met the person once and actually liked them.  I do this because what I really like about Facebook is that instead of  of the typical wacky internet personae you find on other sites, it&#8217;s the real people I know using their real names and posting real pictures of themselves. And because most of my friends are roughly all in mid to late their thirties, it&#8217;s more pics with their children and less with beer-bongs&#8230; I also have a Live Journal account and with that, my rule is almost the opposite.  I tend to write about stuff I&#8217;d rather not have my business customers or even friends know about.  I&#8217;m far too private of a person to generally share such explicit details. So the friends I have on LJ are all in imaginary realm that is the online world.  I don&#8217;t even bother with MySpace anymore.</p>
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		<title>By: NewTeeVee, WebWorkerDaily &#38; OStatic on PCMag Top 100</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[NewTeeVee, WebWorkerDaily &#38; OStatic on PCMag Top 100]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 23:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] efforts. PC Magazine (now exclusively on the web) has named three of our blogs &#8212; NewTeeVee, WebWorkerDaily and OStatic &#8212; to their Top 100 Blogs list. Kudos to the respective teams and site editors who [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] efforts. PC Magazine (now exclusively on the web) has named three of our blogs &#8212; NewTeeVee, WebWorkerDaily and OStatic &#8212; to their Top 100 Blogs list. Kudos to the respective teams and site editors who [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Susanne Goldstone</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susanne Goldstone]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very well said! As someone who&#039;s dying to get more Twitter followers, I still am as hesitant as you to follow just to be followed back. Let people follow you bc they enjoy what you&#039;ve got to say. Although, my Facebook/Twitter ratio is almost 6 to 1, something I&#039;d like to improve on, I&#039;ll let my tweets speak for itself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well said! As someone who&#8217;s dying to get more Twitter followers, I still am as hesitant as you to follow just to be followed back. Let people follow you bc they enjoy what you&#8217;ve got to say. Although, my Facebook/Twitter ratio is almost 6 to 1, something I&#8217;d like to improve on, I&#8217;ll let my tweets speak for itself.</p>
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		<title>By: Business Hacks mobile edition</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Business Hacks mobile edition]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] at Web Worker Daily, Aliza Sherman confronts just this quandry, and decides (if I&#039;m reading between the lines correctly) that she&#039;s more likely to follow people [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] at Web Worker Daily, Aliza Sherman confronts just this quandry, and decides (if I&#8217;m reading between the lines correctly) that she&#8217;s more likely to follow people [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Don&#8217;t Friend Me Because I&#8217;m Beautiful &#171; Tape Noise Diary</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76788</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t Friend Me Because I&#8217;m Beautiful &#171; Tape Noise Diary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:48:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] leave a comment &#187;  Building Friend Lists and Influencing People [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] leave a comment &raquo;  Building Friend Lists and Influencing People [...]</p>
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		<title>By: tantibaci</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76787</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[tantibaci]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 05:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[People think they&#039;re &quot;safer&quot; online if they don&#039;t add random friends (people they don&#039;t know) but that might not actually be the case because the &quot;truer&quot; your friends list is to your real life friends/acquaintances, the more valuable the information Facebook (&amp; viewers/hackers) can have on you because it&#039;s true...?  Maybe?  Ahh!  Online communities craziness, lololol...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People think they&#8217;re &#8220;safer&#8221; online if they don&#8217;t add random friends (people they don&#8217;t know) but that might not actually be the case because the &#8220;truer&#8221; your friends list is to your real life friends/acquaintances, the more valuable the information Facebook (&amp; viewers/hackers) can have on you because it&#8217;s true&#8230;?  Maybe?  Ahh!  Online communities craziness, lololol&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: zchamu</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76786</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[zchamu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I do use whether someone is following me on Twitter as criteria for whether to cull them if the list is getting too unwieldy. When I&#039;m checking my list over I&#039;ll see people that I obviously added for a reason at one point, but if a month later I can&#039;t remember who they are and they aren&#039;t following me, you bet I&#039;ll unfollow them. It&#039;s a two way conversation, and if they&#039;re not interested in listening to me, I probably won&#039;t be bothered with them either. However if they&#039;re following me, I&#039;ll generally leave them in, because I feel at least they&#039;re making an effort to get to know me as well.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do use whether someone is following me on Twitter as criteria for whether to cull them if the list is getting too unwieldy. When I&#8217;m checking my list over I&#8217;ll see people that I obviously added for a reason at one point, but if a month later I can&#8217;t remember who they are and they aren&#8217;t following me, you bet I&#8217;ll unfollow them. It&#8217;s a two way conversation, and if they&#8217;re not interested in listening to me, I probably won&#8217;t be bothered with them either. However if they&#8217;re following me, I&#8217;ll generally leave them in, because I feel at least they&#8217;re making an effort to get to know me as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Elisa DelBonis</title>
		<link>http://gigaom.com/collaboration/building-friends-lists-and-influencing-people/#comment-76785</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elisa DelBonis]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 01:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reading this made me feel a little less crazy.  Or a little more.  I haven&#039;t decided yet.

I have 375 friends on FaceBook.  I know every single one of them personally.  High School, College, Summer Camp... my professional life... the list goes on. And more every day as the 35+ crowd gets on the train.

It stresses me out.  I consider killing the account and starting over.

But then I don&#039;t... because I just don&#039;t have the discipline to not have it snowball again.  And really, I don&#039;t know where the friend or not line should be for me.

So for now, it&#039;s if I&#039;ve ever met you in person and would greet you by name in a crowd.  If not, no dice.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading this made me feel a little less crazy.  Or a little more.  I haven&#8217;t decided yet.</p>
<p>I have 375 friends on FaceBook.  I know every single one of them personally.  High School, College, Summer Camp&#8230; my professional life&#8230; the list goes on. And more every day as the 35+ crowd gets on the train.</p>
<p>It stresses me out.  I consider killing the account and starting over.</p>
<p>But then I don&#8217;t&#8230; because I just don&#8217;t have the discipline to not have it snowball again.  And really, I don&#8217;t know where the friend or not line should be for me.</p>
<p>So for now, it&#8217;s if I&#8217;ve ever met you in person and would greet you by name in a crowd.  If not, no dice.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara Joyce</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Joyce]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You have expressed my sentiments exactly and inspired me to be a bit more selective with my &quot;following&quot;.

I really connected with your thoughts. Thanks for writing them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have expressed my sentiments exactly and inspired me to be a bit more selective with my &#8220;following&#8221;.</p>
<p>I really connected with your thoughts. Thanks for writing them.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brian]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think each network has a different method to friending. I am much more likely to friend people on twitter who I think are interesting even if I don&#039;t know who they are. It just comes down to how you want to use each network and then going about friending people appropriately.

Brian
http://www.konnects.com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think each network has a different method to friending. I am much more likely to friend people on twitter who I think are interesting even if I don&#8217;t know who they are. It just comes down to how you want to use each network and then going about friending people appropriately.</p>
<p>Brian<br />
<a href="http://www.konnects.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.konnects.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Emily Williams</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emily Williams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:25:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Agree with you on Twitter - I follow my real life friends and lots of people that I find either personally or professionally interesting, although my Twitter account is mainly professional. Facebook on the other hand is almost exclusively personal since I started using it while in college. I do have a few professional friends on there, but most are people I&#039;ve connected with elsewhere either online or in real life.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agree with you on Twitter &#8211; I follow my real life friends and lots of people that I find either personally or professionally interesting, although my Twitter account is mainly professional. Facebook on the other hand is almost exclusively personal since I started using it while in college. I do have a few professional friends on there, but most are people I&#8217;ve connected with elsewhere either online or in real life.</p>
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